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Be spontaneous. If you always have sex after dark, in the bedroom, on weeknights, it's going to get boring. Try making love in the morning, or in the shower, or with the lights on. If you're in the mood, try some subtle hints to your partner, even if it's the middle of the day. You might get a fun surprise!
2
Change locations. The bed is great, but it can be exciting to be somewhere else. Lure your lover into the shower, surprise them on the sofa, or have a little fun on the kitchen counter. You can even try outside if you have a private yard.
3
Try new positions. New positions can keep sex interesting. Get a copy of the Kama Sutra, watch adult videos, or look for positions online. Feel free to make up your own. You never know what you might like, and having a variety to choose from will keep things interesting.
4
Role play. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but dressing up or playing a character can really spice things up. Maybe you can pretend to be the naughty librarian your husband dreams of, or play the rugged cowboy your wife longs for. Play out your fantasies!
5
Use toys. There's nothing wrong with adding adult toys to your lovemaking for variety here and there. It can bring added pleasure, and also be a great way of pleasing your partner when you're not really up for regular intercourse.
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Spend some time apart. Sometimes spending a lot of time together can be a bad thing. Try taking a vacation apart. Absence can make the heart grow fonder, and also renew the passion in a relationship.
